VOLUNTEERS are needed to sign up to The Friendship Project in Warwickshire.
The charity matches children and young people, in need for a variety of reasons, with volunteers, for friendship and fun.
The child may be caring for a sick parent or be limited to where they can go on holiday because of a disabled sibling or other family member. For some children, even playing in the park or going to the cinema are a rare treat.
Having some time out from often difficult home situations helps improve a child’s self-esteem and self-worth.
Volunteers report that they too enjoy spending time with their younger friend knowing that they are really making a difference to a child’s life.
Volunteer Chris decided to sign up as a friend to a child due to the difficult circumstances he himself grew up in.
He said: “I first met Luke when he was 10 years old. I remember the impression of a quiet boy that really needed to be liked. He was sensitive, intuitive and in those early years would often give me pictures that he had drawn for me when I picked him up each week. He enjoyed physical activities, we played football and tag in the park, went swimming, cycling and walking. He also liked to talk and I would ensure that either during or around these activities we always had time for conversation.
“I focused on being a friend and not a parent, but I would often steer our conversations towards what type of person he wanted to be and whether he had been heading towards or away from being that person in the past week.
“In his early teenage years, he would often skulk out of his home with his hood pulled over his face and grunt at my questions as we drove to our activity that week. But by the time we arrived at our destination and as we unloaded bikes from the car or set off on our walk he would open up, and our conversations would often be quite serious about his feelings, how he should react in some of the different situations that he was encountering.
“I always enjoyed our conversations, although I often felt that he did not listen or rejected some of what I suggested. But then I would hear my words repeated back to me, often weeks later, or he would describe to me how he had changed his behaviour or tried something that I had suggested instead of just thumping someone.
“Friendships have to finish on the younger friends 17th birthday. I always expected it to finish earlier than that – hanging around with a 60 year-old man is not very cool for a teenage boy. Our friendship just seemed to get stronger and stronger and I will keep in contact with him.”
Call 07516 527714 or visit friendshipproject.co.uk/ to find out more.
